I realised that I dun haf a plan on what to do after I graduate. ya, I noe I am aiming for universities but that seriously depend on luck. Furthermore, if I were to enter a uni, there r still ard 6 mths to spend waiting for enrolment.
So what should I do for that 6 mths?
I admit that I’m pretty lazy to work. I want a break. I want to relax, enjoy life and play. But I need money to do all those. So it’s either my savings get lesser or I satisfy my rest time n wrk more for money. Whatever it is, I’ve got to plan. I’ve, perhaps, a mth plus to plan since I am gg overseas in abt a mth’s time and it’s useless for me to get a job now.
ANW, these days I’ve got some logics about ppl’s opinions towards love and r/s. I guess it’s due to after-effect of the movie The Valentine’s Day by taylor swift. In the show, there were two great friends, a guy-girl friendship. Then this guy starts off the movie proposing to his gf whom everyone thinks that she’s not suitable for and will not choose tt guy but no one told the guy. And the girl(the one in the friendship) fell in love with a doctor who’s married but lied to her that he had divorced. And so, in the end, they found out the truth and they broke up with their partners. And then someone said something to the girl and she suddenli realised that the love she has been searching for might all along be her good friend, which is that guy. and at the end of the show, they were tgt.
And it suddenli hits me with what my friends told me last time. One of them said it’s impossible for her to ever fall in love with her good friend, who is a guy. The reason isn’t because she dun love the guy, but is that she will not love the guy because he’s her gd friend. She commented that it just make things weird. I beg to disagree that time but I wasn’t strong in my arguement. But now, I seriously beg to differ.
In the movie, one of the guy asked his friend(a guy) how did he and his wife ever stay so sweet and strong and understanding towards each other. The guy just answered “Because I married my best friend.”
And now I think it isn’t too bad to fall in love with best friend too. It may be weird at first, but that’s how everything starts. you can be so close with your best friend because you understand each other. you like your best friend because you have postive feelings to him/her. you can say everything to your best friend because you trusted him/her. and the list adds on…Aren’t all these impt points you look for in someone whom you are gg to be with forever?
I seriously think such ppl r hard to find in life and once you found one, you shuldn’t let the person go. esp if tt person have positive feelings to you too.
And my the other friend also mentioned that her future bf must be someone that she admired.like he have some talent or great looks that she admired or look up upon. I dunno what other think of this but to me is NO. as in…not nescessary. cos to me, bf should be someone that you can depend on and enjoy life with and feel at ease with and not some god that you pray for.
Just my 2cents worth of life. =)
anw, hows everyone’s cny?? mine was pretty normal. lol. It’s just seriously terrible when cny is tgt with v.day.
cos it means no time for valentine and more time for family and relatives.
but nevertheless, I enjoyed my holidays. afterall, I can rest. haha. slp more, eat more and gain more. holla!
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